Showing posts with label reproductive endocrinologist. Show all posts
Showing posts with label reproductive endocrinologist. Show all posts

Friday, December 28, 2012

Are Infertility Doctors Predatory Bankers?


A neighbor, a friend, a couple down the street will discover this week that they are infertile and that if they want biological children of their own, they are going to need in vitro fertilization (IVF).  According to treatment protocol, the woman will need to take powerful medicines to ramp up her production of fertilizable eggs.  One monthly cycle of this treatment will run around $12,000.  But most couples require more than one cycle to achieve their goal of carrying a child to term.  In other words, this couple could easily be looking at a bill exceeding $30,000 or $40,000.
And did I mention that this money could all come out of their own pockets?  Because not all insurance companies pay for in vitro fertilization.
No worry though.  Their infertility physician informs them about a company he has worked with that specializes in infertility loans.  He even offers to have his office staff help the couple fill out the necessary paperwork.  Thanks to this assistance, the couple secures the loan and, with luck, will soon be rewarded with a healthy baby.
Infertility Doctors
Free market medicine at its finest, yes?  A couple with “skin in the game” learns about their health costs in advance.  They are given accurate data about the likelihood that any given cycle of treatment will work.  They even work with a loan agency specifically geared to meet their financial needs.
Would it bother you if you learned that the infertility doctor received a referral fee from the loan agency?  Would you be upset to learn that this couple was charged an annual interest rate of 22%?
My book, Five Strands of Hope, is available here on Amazon.  It is a memoir about my journey through secondary infertility through a horrendous triplet pregnancy.

Monday, July 9, 2012

Natural PCOS Remedies

I found a press release for Dr. Rebecca Harwin's book "Conquer Your PCOS Naturally." My fertility issues didn't involve PCOS.  However, I did try natural remedies for our infertility issues before turning to a reproductive endocrinologist.   For those unfortunate enough to suffer from PCOS, I believe, this book might help you.


The Face of PCOS




Dr Harwin is a leading PCOS expert, providing resources to help women suffering from PCOS balance their hormones, naturally regain fertility and live a symptom-free and well life, (http://www.ConquerYourPCOSNaturally.com).
The international author of 'Conquer Your PCOS Naturally' has appeared in magazines such as CEO Magazine, Women's Health & Fitness, and will be featured in the August edition of Vogue. You can get the first three chapters of her book at her website for free.
Dr Rebecca Harwin, Author & Founder of Conquer Your PCOS Naturally

Read more: http://www.digitaljournal.com/pr/784998#ixzz207nLode7




Friday, July 6, 2012

90% Divorce Rate for Triplet Parents

Happy Friday!
The triplets had their 3 year well-visit on Tuesday.  I'm happy to report that Anna, Liam and Owen are all doing well.  Funny, though, Anna and Liam are the same height and same weight.  Owen is my big guy, although only an inch taller and a pound heavier.

I really like my children's doctor and often ask him about his children.  One of his sons trades derivatives and another is a reproductive endocrinologist.  Having traded derivates and gone to a reproductive endocrinologist, I am very familiar with both of these areas and enjoy hearing about my doctor's sons.

This visit, however, my doctor surprised me when he told me that his son read a recent study that the divorce rate for parents of triplets and other higher-level multiples is 90%.  I had heard the divorce rate was a mere 80%, but 90%!

How Can These Innocents Lead to a Higher Divorce Rate?
I don't usually admit to being really stressed - definitely not when I'm in the moment.  However, I have a few times since having the triplets.  It felt like my heart was beating so fast that it would just conk out like a rusty old car.  Those moments weren't caused the kids bad behavior, but just a feeling of being totally overwhelmed.  It usually happened at the end of the week or when holidays were approaching and additional responsibilities were thrown at me (sometimes by myself or by hosting family and holidays).

During my times of feeling completely overwhelmed, Brian and I had more than our usual share of arguments.  The arguments took on a nastier tone than necessary.  However, I can tell you now that we were both trying to expel the stress and we didn't realize that was what we were doing.  In hindsight, I believe, that it was possible for one or more of those fights to get completely out of hand and cause permanent damage to our marriage.  Thankfully, none of the arguments did.

Though we never talked (or screamed) about divorce.  I don't want to say that it's not an option, because Jennifer Masche did and well, she divorced her children's father.  There are definitely circumstances were I would leave a marriage and I'm sure Brian feels the same way.  However, we are committed to making our marriage work for our children and because we truly love each other.

I don't want to be egotistical and whole-heartedly believe that Brian and I are among the 10% that don't get divorced.  However, knowing the statistic, I will make sure that we keep communication open and continue to find more productive ways to expel the stress that builds up.

Then again, we are lucky with statistics.  We were told we had a 2% chance of getting pregnant with triplets.  Then we were told we had almost no chance of having healthy ones.
Owen Casey

Liam Casey

Anna Casey

Gavin Casey





Monday, June 25, 2012

Ignorance is Not Always Bliss

But it worked out all right in the end.

When I found out that I was pregnant with quadruplets, I was ecstatic.  I wanted a big family and with my age and our fertility issues, the only way to do this would be to have multiple children at once.  My reproductive endocrinologist warned me that the pregnancy would be difficult and, as I said before, he suggested that I reduce the pregnancy down to one or two babies.

I went home and looked up characteristics of successful quadruplet pregnancies.  Two things I remember was that the mother needs to be tall (I'm just shy of 5-9) and have had a previous full-term pregnancy (I had Gavin the day before his due date).  Oh, and my friend, Katie, got me in touch with her friend, Julie, (through Facebook) who had triplets at 35 weeks.   I thought that I'd be find.

(Anyone old enough to remember the TV show My Three Sons)

As you all know by know, I wasn't fine.  The pregnancy was the scariest roller-coaster rides I've ever been on, which isn't saying a lot, because I won't go on roller coasters...I HATE them.  However, I am writing this as my triplets and Gavin are playing house/barn (Owen insists on being a tiger) in the living room, I'd replay that horrific pregnancy over and over again, because of us, everything turned out wonderful.

Since starting this blog, I've met lots of women whose pregnancies didn't turn well.  I didn't know anyone prior to my pregnancy who didn't have great pregnancies.  Before the statistics were just numbers - not realities.  I'm a "math" person.  I took PhD statistics courses while I was at the University of Chicago.  The numbers should have represented real possibilities to me, if anyone.  But I was looking at them as a mother, a pregnant mother fiercely protective of her babies.



Sometimes, I wonder if I would have made different decisions at the beginning of my IVF cycle, knowing what I know now.  The truth of the matter is that I'll never know.  My heart is bigger, stronger now and I love being a mother.  I don't think I could just throw two embryos away, which was the choice presented to us.  However, maybe my journey and those of other women will help you make the insanely hard decisions that surround infertility and high level multiple pregnancies.

All the best,
Laura




Here are links to chapter one of my book: